Tuesday, January 31, 2012

From There to Here: Creativity…the early years

    Creative people were all around me growing up.  I was surrounded by a mother who could sew with her eyes closed, a neighbor who constantly created new things, an aunt who whipped up new outfits for her children weekly, and a father who created amazing art with his hands.  It was simply a matter of time before I followed suit. 
      The earliest memory I have of my creativeness was a day when I was 4 or 5 and I was sitting at the dining room table.  I looked over and I saw a stylus (aka a paperclip) and in front of me a blank slate (aka the dining room table).  I sketched (rather deeply) a landscape (house, sidewalk and complete with chimney and smoke) into the extra leaf of the table.  I saw it as a great improvement to the smooth surface of an otherwise, boring tabletop.  However, my mother saw my masterpiece quite differently…which I think was stifling on her part. 
      A few years went by and then BAM…it finally happened!  I became a creative genius.  The year was 1970 and I received a Velvet doll for Christmas.  She came with only one outfit.  Now obviously, as a modern girl of the 70’s, her minimalist wardrobe simply would not do.  We couldn’t afford to buy more clothes for her, so I took matters into my own hands.  I found a piece of fabric and figured out how to make her a new dress.  I wanted to use my mom’s sewing machine but at the age of 9 she didn’t think allowing me to sew my own fingers together was a great idea…so I taught myself to hand sew (I went through a somewhat stubborn streak).  I laid the original dress on the piece of fabric and then cut it a bit larger so that I could hem the neck and armholes.  I even made “buttonholes” and sewed buttons on; details are vitally important.  To top it off, I drew a flower on the front of the dress; prints were all the rage in the 70s.  Personally, I thought I was the next Coco Chanel.  That ladies and gentleman, is the day that I just knew I was destined to spend my life creating beautiful things.  

Thursday, January 26, 2012

From There to Here - It's in the DNA

As I sit contemplating what to write for my second installment I realize that I have come from a family of “business owners”.  Now I never really thought of my dad or my uncles as business owners...after all it was a dairy farm where we all learned how to work and take on responsibility at a young age.  However, they were business owners as they owned and managed a large dairy farm and a fertilizer sales business, just as their father and their grandfather did before them.  Without even realizing it I learned many lessons during that time in my life.  Multitasking…because anyone that knows anything about a dairy farm it’s this…when it is time for the cows to be milked it did not matter what else you were involved in you had to figure out how to get it done.   Flexibility…you may have planned to work in the fields but if it was raining you had to quickly readjust and do some indoor tasks.  Staff management….in this case the staff was my brothers, sister, cousins and me.  Talk about an unruly bunch!  There were many times we didn’t want to do the work or had better things to do but somehow they managed to get us to get the work done and still have time to have some fun.  Looking back there are many fond memories. 
My first foray into my own business adventure was when I saw an advertisement in a magazine.  It was for a “seed kit”.  You order this seed kit and then you sell the seeds at a profit to your unsuspecting neighbors!  Genius!!  However, my mother did not think so…no mom +no money of my own to back my business = on to the next great idea!  The next grand plan also had a magazine and a television advertisement behind it.  If you could draw the turtle or pirate pictured then you could have a career as an artist.  Guess what…my turtle kind of looked like the pirate so that dream ended quickly.  Good thing I have faith and dreams because I never gave up.  But as I said before…it has been quite the journey!

Monday, January 23, 2012

How we got from There to Here…Our Story (and the lessons we’ve learned along the way)

Recently I read an article that recommended that we should tell our story.  Not just a brief note on the about us page but our story….who we are, what is our motivation, what makes us tick.  At first I balked, I am not one to talk about myself, I am much more comfortable sitting behind a sewing machine, but then after much thought I decided that maybe it would help others to see our passion for our products and how we arrived here.  As one can see from our "About Us" page, family is important to us.  Our business name comes from Courtney’s (my daughter and partner) maternal and paternal grandmother’s maiden names.  Our family has always been there for us, no matter what.  My family has always been very supportive especially my husband, Chip who still after 25 years continues to support my crazy endeavors without judgment -- now that is a great husband!  My two girls, Courtney, my eldest and my business partner, Ashley who is in college and is our biggest promoter (give her half a chance and you will have our business card in your hand) and my new son-in-law, Erik all share my passion for enteprenuerism.  My niece, Sarah (Rejoice Designs), is always willing to do photo shoots, business cards, website design, etc. and is an incredible talent herself!  My sister, Cindy is always only a phone call away to offer advice and support.  To all of our family we say thank you!  Friends are also very important, my friends are the best!  They are always there providing support and comic relief!  Finally, faith is very important to me.   Faith has gotten me through many moves and ups and downs in my life.  Through this blog we hope to give you a glimpse into our lives, what we’ve learned and how we arrived here.

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Going To The Chapel & A Whole Lot of Lovin'


            Well my dear readers…we are officially 25 days out from the wedding…I. Can’t. Believe. It.  I am truly so excited and have definitely caught myself daydreaming a good 90% of my day about walking down the aisle…which is one of the reasons why I have been such a humungous slacker when it coming to blogging lately.  Well that and I have been working on tons of last minute nuptial details; ugh…it just never seems to end!  Rather than keep you all on the edge of your seats until the wedding, wondering if you will be treating your eyeballs to another post, I will end your sheer anticipation by saying that I will be taking a sabbatical until after my honeymoon.
            I know, I know…this is devastating…so I will attempt to make this one heck of an epic post to tide you over.  Hopefully this compilation of my favorite ‘all things wedding’ taken from past posts will warm your heart and dry your tears.  Until next time loves…I am off to the chapel…xo          

via ArtDecoRings.com


Ugh, I mean...I am biased...but I just adore non-traditional engagement rings...how stunning is this rock?! 



I just adore the divine, soft details of this Claire Pettibone wedding gown...it would just be so perfect for a spring garden wedding!

Dave Robbins via Snippet & Ink


This wedding makes me want to shed tears of joy...I love the sparkling lights.   It must have been so magical to say "I do" here. 

via Elizabeth Anne Designs


Who doesn't love a good birch vase?

via Frank Amodo


Why are kids so stinkin' cute...this picture is just too much. 

via John Barone Photography


I just picture these little girls screaming...'Yay...I bet there is cake soon!".   Let me tell you...I scream the exact same thing at weddings. 

via John Barone Photography


Hahahaha. This picture just speaks for itself.

Bridesmaids the Movie


Have you seen this movie (it is Bridesmaids)? If not...stop reading this post immediately...grab your car keys...and drive swiftly to your local RedBox...you might want to also purchase Depends.  Just a warning.

Geneoh Photography via Ruffled


I like to think that this photo actually oozes love...I hope that this is a real couple and not a staged shoot...even if it is...I bet they fell in love taking these shots.

via Mark Adams Photography


Once again...this picture speaks for itself.  Kids at weddings are just so funny. 

via Monique Lhillier


The clean lines of this dress are to die for...I am in passionate love with the sheer sleeves. 

via My Summer of Weddings


One of my favorite wedding details is using non-traditional centerpieces.  The way that cotton is used here is just so utterly fantastic. 

via Nelson Wedding Photography


To wrap up this love fest...we will end with a good ole' Papa shot...how sweet. 
P.S.- I would have included more photos...but the blog cut me off...what can I say...posting pictures is sort of like a gateway drug.



Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Selfishness & Boutonnieres

            Happy torrentially rainy Wednesday readers!  If you happen to be living on the upper East Coast of the United States…I certainly hope that you are able to stay dry today…it is quite the crazy storm out there!  Now…I have been thinking a lot about this blog lately…and I realized that I haven’t been giving any sort of attention to my male readers.  How awful of me…so this one is dedicated to you…that is if you forgive me for being distracted by sparkly, girly items.  Ugh, I have just been so incredibly rude.  
            If you happen to be anything like my fiancé and I, you can understand how we had a super hard time selecting a non-feminine boutonniere for the men in the bridal party.  Everything we came across either seemed too poufy or too smelly…and my fiancé tends to vomit from all things stinky.  After tons of research, we finally found blooms that we were both happy with.  Honestly…I am pretty stinkin’ sure that we aren’t the only couple that wrestled with this decision…so I decided to go on a hunt for some great autumn boutonnieres that hopefully will aide in your search for the perfect accent.  Let me know if you like my picks!  Until next time…xo          


via Weddings By Color

John Rozier Wedding Photography via The Knot

SMS Photography via The Knot

via Weddings for Two

via Once Wed

via Once Wed

via Once Wed

via Red Velvet Occasions

via Weddings by Color

via Weddings by Color



Tuesday, September 6, 2011

Pumpkin Candy Corns, Rain Puddles, & Cardigans

            Happy Tuesday!  I certainly hope that you all had a wonderfully relaxing Labor Day weekend…maybe went on a luxurious trip…spent some time on the couch with old episodes of Millionaire Matchmaker.  Ugh…how great!  This past weekend, I had the chance to get a bunch of last minute wedding tasks done with my man (he was such a good sport).  After running errands, we ended up at the grocery store…while walking through the aisles…we saw the most miraculous vision.  Ladies and gentleman, it is finally pumpkin candy corn season!  Wahoo!  For some reason, I think that they taste way better than any normal sort of candy corn…what are your thoughts?
            Anyway…with such a definite reminder of the upcoming autumn season…it is time to finally face the changing weather.  When I think about the beginning of fall, two things come to mind.  Drizzle and cool temperatures.  With less than idyllic weather, brides have to become super creative to construct the wedding of their dreams.  With such inventive ideas…it is super hard to ignore how awesome fall season nuptials turn out.  Some of my very favorite autumn fixes are rain boots to keep bridal tootsies perfectly dry and chic cardigans to combat against the chill.
            Take a look at these totally awesome photos from fashion-forward brides and feel free to be inspired.  Until next time…xo

via A Paper Proposal

Fall Bolero via Holly Stalder

via A Paper Proposal

via A Paper Proposal

via A Paper Proposal

via A Paper Proposal

via A Paper Proposal

via A Mountain Bride

via Alice Pub

via Elizabeth Anne Designs

via Sarah Rhoads Photography


Thursday, September 1, 2011

Joy & Rehearsal Dinner Cheese


            Hello!  So guess what?!  We here at Cocroft & Delbridge are super excited because…my WEDDING GOWN has arrived!  Oh. My. Gosh.  I can’t even begin to tell you how thrilled I am about this. Wahoo!
            In other news…I have tons and tons of wedding plans to work on this weekend with my man.  Soo…I am going to post some cheese for you today!  With the wedding only five weeks around the corner, I have been thinking a whole lot about what to wear to my rehearsal dinner…I actually just bought a dress but it was only after a ton of thought!  Do you think that brides should wear white or ivory for all wedding occasions…or should they switch it up with some punches of color?  Here are some of my very favorite options for rehearsal dinner looks…I hope that you enjoy them as much as I do!  Until next week…xo      

via BHLDN

via J.Crew

via J.Crew

via BHLDN

via J.Crew

via J.Crew
Ali Ro via Bloomingdales 

BCBG Max Azria via Bloomingdales


Max & Cleo via Bloomingdales 

BCBG Max Azria via Bloomingdales


BCBG Max Azria via Bloomingdales


Rebecca Taylor via Bloomingdales